Jeanette Bryson, Residence Dean
In 1975, I was in grade 12 at Kingsway College in Oshawa, Ontario, Mrs. Bryson asked me to work as a Residence Hall Counselor for the grade 10 girls. She gave me great freedom to disciple these young women, including letting us go to the elementary school play ground to have late night worships.
At age 17, when I was headed to Andrews University for my first year of college, without me knowing about it, Mrs. Bryson recommended me for an opening in Lamson Hall as a Resident Hall Advisor. I accepted and had four wonderful years serving the young women on my hall. (Lamson Hall room 27 then room 527)
In the Summer of 1980, I learned that Mrs. Bryson’s husband had died in a highway accident and that the memorial service was going to be held in the Seminary Chapel. (They were returning missionaries.) I’d never been to a funeral/memorial service before and told a friend I wasn’t going to attend because I didn’t really know the man who died. My friend said, “You attend the service for the people you know who are still alive.”
I attended the service and ran into Mrs. Bryson in the rest room. She gave me a big hug and said, “You came. I’m so glad you’re here.”
Her words continue to impact my ministry. It’s important to be present.